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Get Educated About the Benefits You and Your Child With Special Needs Qualify for in Your State
By Susie Appleman | August 24, 2008
I just went to another meeting where not only did the parents not know what to do, but the “experts” did not know either. It’s that old saying, “the blind leading the blind.” It was a meeting within one of my local school districts, where everyone is supposed to be acting in the best interest of the child but weren’t. The district employees are overworked, under paid, and sometimes do not have a clear understanding of the available services themselves. I get that; been there, done that. Remember, I used to be one of the “school experts.” It has been an eye-opening experience being on the other side of the table as the parent, instead of the therapist. Now, I can totally understand parents’ frustration and confusion.
Here’s my advice … Get Educated!I once heard that parents in Arizona spend more time investigating a new car than their child’s daycare situation. As Special Education Parents, we don’t have that luxury. When you get into a meeting, know what your child’s rights are and what you are looking for from the school district. If the district does not provide you with a copy of the IDEA (Individuals with Disabilities Education Act) ask for one. Get all written notes as well as a Prior Written Notice at the end of the meeting. Make sure that you find out who is in the meeting, what supports/accommodations your child is entitled to, and who you can appeal to. Accommodations cost money. The district will try to low-ball services if it can. Their first offer is a starting point for negotiations. Don’t sign anything until you have read every document, and agree with the level of services the district will provide. Talk to other parents of kids with your child’s disability. You will find that extra services are provided to parents who are vocal and involved in the process. Yes, you can hire an advocate but that’s really expensive. Look to the non-profit agencies for advice. You might learn something without costing you your child’s college fund.
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